I don't want anyone to stare at me. I don't want to feel uncomfortable walking past a group of men. I want to come home safely at night. I want to wear the clothes I like, without men thinking it’s just for them. Neither do I want to feel the looks on my boobs. I don't want to be categorized as a certain type of woman.
The first dates, things are going well. A good start. That could work, because the basic views on life don't diverge completely. But later, the better you get to know each other, there are always little things that don't fit together at all. What can you do without and in which points you must insist that you resemble each other?